Layla & Lewis were married recently at the Valley Brook Golf Club in River Vale, NJ. I had so much fun getting to know them and learning their story. They also introduced me to a GREAT Greek restaurant – After Athens in Rutherford – two blocks from my apartment that I hadn’t been to – it has the most fabulous chai!
They really wanted a sentimental, touching, and funny ceremony, without getting too mushy. I think their Love Story really captured the wonderful love they have between them, and celebrated who they were. Layla gave me a special “checklist” that a friend had given her, as potential ways to check out a new guy’s history, and I opened with it:
Many years ago, a friend of Layla’s wrote a special screening checklist for her potential dates. This list included many gems of advice, including:
Number 1: Check guy’s psych history.
Number 4: Check his walls/photo albums for signs of obsessiveness.
But, the most important, was number 7: Above all, settle for nothing. Layla took this very important advice to heart, and it led her to her soul mate, as you see them before you today.
Layla & Lewis chose to write their own vows. It was their moment to really have fun and open up to each other, in front of their family and friends, and they did a fabulous job. Layla used a reading from the Velveteen Rabbit in her vows – telling Lewis that his love is what makes her REAL. Lewis said that one of his favorite activities is making Layla smile – and requested that she let him do that forever.
Their ceremony also included a reading by the Matron of Honor (e.e. cumming’s “i carry your heart”) and a handfasting.
Layla & Lewis are expecting their first child in March, and got engaged in November, putting their wedding together in just two months! I couldn’t believe it!
You guys rock. I had SO much fun. Congratulations again!
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